article from Mobiel 3, june/july 2001

IFCO-programme

Monday 16 July 2001:
The context of society

Plenary session: Towards a foster caring society

Opening documentary

The documentary Towards a foster caring society shows fascinating forms of foster care from all over the world. Each social context in its own way gives meaning and implementation to foster care. To a child, living at ‘home’ is what really matters. But a home can be established in a variety of ways. American policy at the present time is based on community-based foster care arising from private initiatives by churches. In the Netherlands, it is possible for someone to be severely handicapped and live with his grandparents. One foster family with 62 children and 800 successful placements has set up a musical band as a means of breaking through the spiral of violence in Rio de Janeiro’s slums. Gypsy children (Roma) in Rumania, rejected at first, have now suddenly been taken into care successfully. Food for thought and discussion on the road towards a foster caring society.

• Documentary maker: Gerard Braspenning (45), experienced television journalist and documentary maker, employed by the national network.

Tracks

Track 1: Ideology & Ethics
Social parenthood? An international perspective?!

Foster care is strongest when parents and foster parents share the responsibilities of parenthood. But in practice, problems can arise when responsibility is shared in this way. Solutions to these problems have been sought in the courts, and it has often seemed that the position of foster parents can only be secured by restricting or removing the authority of the parents, for example in case of custody or adoption. But a legal contest is not the only solution. Social parenthood is a model in which this problem is handled creatively, so that a win-win situation will arise for parents, foster parents and above all for the child. In this track, participants will be invited to join the discussion actively and to share their opinions!

• Prof. Dr. Jaap E. Doek, Professor of Law, Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam and UN Committee on the Rights of the Child (Reporter).
• A local consultant in Rwanda and UNICEF researcher in foster care in a society in which the consequences of the genocide and the HIV / AIDS problem call for a ‘fostering’ solution.
Track 2: Management & Organisation
The meaning of the civil society in foster care

An international forum will initiate an exchange of thought on the roles of state and society in developing and re-inforcing foster care. In some countries, powerful initiatives from society falter because they must be fitted into certain government-controlled systems. In other countries, these very initiatives are used as a means of adapting the system and increasing the strength of (local) initiatives. What is the situation world-wide? A dialogue between the forum and the audience about best practices from different parts of the world.

• Dr. A. van Montfoort, director Van Montfoort Consultancy, Woerden, the Netherlands
• International forum with guests from Egypt, India, Rumania, Japan, Uganda and the Netherlands
Track 3: Education & Science
Community-based (foster) care & social network strategies

‘It takes a whole village to raise a child’, Hillary Clinton once said. This means that in assisting parents and children, social network strategies are important. One implication of this for foster care is that children must be given a place of their own within their families and/or environment. The return home can then take place in a more natural and positive way. For foster care organisations this means co-operation with other welfare institutions, and with businesses, schools and other parties that play a part in the immediate living environment of parents and child. Socially this requires that policy anticipate changes in the way in which (foster) parents want to fill their daily lives and seek to combine care and employment. This track is about community-based (foster) care from various perspectives. What requirements does this make on foster care?

• Lia van Bekhoven, free-lance journalist, correspondent for the Dutch National radio and television in London
• International forum with (inter)national guests from Business in Community, Community Schools, Community Based Initiatives, Foster Care for Children with a Handicap, Neighbourhood-Based Foster Care and the Dutch Family Council.
Track 4: Concrete Projects
The power of young people in caring for each other

Foster care takes on a different meaning if young people implement it themselves. The result is more likely to be an implementation in harmony with its community and consistent with its standards and values, and an implementation in which ‘quality criteria’ for foster care (for example housing, finance) are seen from a different perspective. In these communities care will be given the opportunity to re-inforce and develop itself naturally instead of being squeezed into the rules and systems of the government. Four individuals who initiated this development in communities in Rio de Janeiro and Amsterdam will enter into a discussion with the audience on the possibility of enhancing this approach to foster care.

• Nanko van Buuren, director of the Instituto Brasileiro de Inovações em Saúde Social (IBISS), for the last 14 years the initiator and driving force behind projects in the slums of Rio de Janeiro.
• Flávio Luis Baretto Gomes, foster parent (20 years old) and co-ordinator project Catadores da Vida (IBISS). Born and bred in the streets of Rio de Janeiro. Together with his wife Claudette (19) he raises their five-year-old son Yogo and their two-year-old foster son Thiago. IBISS is supporting this (informal) foster family.
• Gilo Koswal; co-creator and director of the Foundation Brotherhood in Amsterdam South East; for 24 years he has been actively engaged in implementing community-based care on the basis of the philosophy of empowerment.
• Alberto Dianza; the elder son (17) of a family that fled from Angola. Due to the absence of his father he, being the oldest male was given the father role in the family. Brotherhood supports him in this.
TUESDAY 17 JULY 2001:
FOCUS ON CHILDREN AND YOUNG PEOPLE

Plenary session: Opening by Howard Komproe and Andjena Ramadhin.

Children’s Aid Award 2001: Children’s expression of life in a foster home

State Secretary of Justice Ms. E. Kalsbeek, with the assistance of young people, will open the travelling exhibition of the Kinderhulp Award 2001.
In drawings, collages, poems, jigsaw puzzles and other creative forms Dutch children in foster family homes demonstrated how they feel about growing up in a foster home as part of a national competition. What is special about this contest is that both foster children and foster parents’ ‘own’ children participated. On the basis of all entries an exhibition has been put together, which will be opened by the state secretary of the Justice Department, Ella Kalsbeek. In the coming years this exhibition will be on the road in the Netherlands to inform children and adults about life in a foster family home.

The Children’s Aid Award and the exhibition are an initiative of the National Fund for Children’s Aid (Nationaal Fonds Kinderhulp). This Dutch Fund is supporting children in the Netherlands who are in less fortunate circumstances, usually due to disturbed home situations. Children’s Aid is providing support by, among other things, funding services, materials and activities that the government does not pay for, such as a week on a camping trip, membership of a sports club, a swing for a children’s home.

Children’s Aid also publishes a newspaper for young people growing up in foster families.

A world wide Youth in Care Network
PowerPoint presentation by Matthew Geigen Miller from Canada.
International young people’s debate chaired by Emine Bozkurt.

The young participants can make a choice from the following:

– A foster child that experiences his/her foster family as his/her own family is better off being adopted.
– Foster children have the right to break off contact with their biological parents.
– Each child has a right to talk with someone in absolute confidentiality.
– Foster children are just like other children, so don’t call them foster children.
– Children of foster parents can exercise a veto if they feel that the foster child no longer fits into their family.
– If my mother and father had received proper help, I would never have ended up a foster child.
– If you cannot live at home any longer, living with your grandmother and grandfather is the second best option.
– Black children don’t belong in white foster families.
– Children that live in foster family homes can receive a great deal of support from (international) young people’s organisations.

• Emine Bozkurt is a communication expert by the Rathenau Institute in The Hague.
She has demonstrated a great deal of commitment to youth participation in a national and international context. For example, at the end of 2000 she organised a discussion session with the European Parliament at which 20 young people were involved. She also wrote a note on youth participation. Among other things she promotes a positive implementation of the multicoloured nature of society.
After the debate the participants will be the first to receive an international publication with examples from the practice of youth participation.
WEDNESDAY 18 JULY 2026
THE RECREATIONAL DAY

Agency visits and Tours

Agency visits

It will be possible for you to visit youth care organisations to experience the way youth care has been organised in the Netherlands. We will visit a number of interesting projects in the area of child and youth care in the region. There is a highly developed regional vision regarding child and youth care. After lunch, we will connect general developments at the local level (playgrounds in the neighbourhood, community young people’s council, the youth prevention project in co-operation with the police) with complementary care. We will visit, among other things, a medical day-care centre, and a number of other interesting projects concerning care for young people and their parents. During the programme there will be ample opportunity for asking questions and becoming acquainted with the many developments in child and youth care. We hope you will find it a fascinating and instructive day!
A guided day trip by touringcar. Coffee/tea and lunch are included.
Package price: free

If you want to take part in the agency visits, please mail us () because space is limited!For information about the tours visit the website www.ifco2001.nl

Prices booked in advance are indicated, tickets can be purchased at the conference with an additional charge on the price.

THURSDAY 19 JULY 2026
SYSTEMS OF CARE

Plenary session: Two daddies

Today’s subject is systems of care. Several of these interrelate in the prize-winning documentary we selected to show you about a gay couple taking care of seven children as foster parents. We follow them in their loving care for their children and we witness their co-operation with the parents on the basis of mutual respect.
Later this day you can participate in a discussion with foster parents Ron and Aad about the conditions and the special qualities needed to raise those seven kids in this family-situation.

Tracks

Track 1: Ideology & Ethics
Mothering against the odds

A refugee mother is interviewed about the help she needs in a western care system.
In the fourth track a refugee from Iran who lives in Holland will tell her story. Every day migrants and refugees arrive in Holland; at this moment Amsterdam numbers 178 nationalities. Still, our Western perspective in the care system has hardly developed into a multicultural perspective.
In this track, an Iranian mother will tell her story – a story about coming to a foreign country, about hospitality and hostility, about being homesick and especially about her experience of our Dutch system of care.
The main theme in the interview will be: In what way does the refugee background interfere with bringing up a child in Western society. Is the voice of the mother heard and do we understand her needs?

• Nel Jessurun is a multicultural psychotherapist, with a migrant background. She is the author of the book ‘Transculturele Vaardigheden’ (Transcultural Skills). For over 20 years her ideas have been used in the field of multicultural mental health care.
• Susan Rezai is a refugee from Iran. She came to Holland 15 years ago with her husband and daughter. Her daughter is now 16 years old and Susan got divorced a few years after her arrival in Holland. She works nowadays as an actress.
Track 2: Management & Organisation
The need for new systems of foster care

Child welfare is in transition from a traditional diagnosis-treatment model to an empowerment model. In foster care this means an increasing belief in kinship care, in relying on the strengths of children, parents and foster parents and in the problem solving capacities of social networks.
These developments require profound changes in the policy and management of youth care.

• Prof. Emily Jean McFadden teaches at Grand Valley State University School of Social Work in the USA. She has directed federal grant projects on child welfare, including ones on permanency planning and kinship care, and has written books, articles and training manuals on child welfare.
• Dr. Jo Hermanns is a policy consultant in youth policy and part time professor in child development at the University of Amsterdam. He recently was involved in a national innovation program of foster care in the Netherlands.
Track 3: Education & Science
The voice of the child in the system of care.

At the core of the system of care is the child. The challenge is how to present that core as a living and breathing human being. We need to find a way to have children participate in the process of help. How do we communicate with children in order to give them the help they need?

• Dr Martine Delfos Ph.D., psychologist, has been involved for more than 25 years in youth relief work as an independent therapist and lecturer. She has published several books and won an award for her therapeutic children's book. She has gotten a lot of recognition for her work regarding sexual education, sexual abuse and communication with children
• Amos Kevin Annan is a children’s advocate. His field is Children's Rights. He studied and now lives in Tema, Ghana, West-Africa. He is a member of the Child Rights Information. Since 1997 he has been Star of Hope International Advocate-Trainer, UN Child.
Track4: Concrete projects
Everything you always wanted to know about foster care but were afraid to ask

In this track (former) foster children will interview two foster parents about their experiences with foster children. The subjects will be the fears and hopes of the foster parents, their reasons for starting a foster family, the lessons they learned, the strategies they used and any other subjects they would like to discuss. But the foster children devised the questions and will ask them. So we will turn around the traditional roles of adult and minor.
The presentation will probably have the nature of a television show in an effort to increase the quality of information. Of course, participation of the audience is very welcome!

• Nanneke Quik & Carolus van Nijnatten, both foster parents, are related professionally to foster care, Nanneke Quik as juvenile judge and Carolus van Nijnatten as scientific researcher in the field of child welfare.
FRIDAY 20 JULY 2026
INSPIRATION FOR A NEW ERAPlenary opening session

Tracks

Track 1: Ideology & Ethics
Boundaries in foster care? Challenges and restrictions?!

On the basis of the experiences and inspiration of the conference days, an expert on ‘creative thinking’ will invite participants to approach foster care from an entirely different angle in a process of creative thought, to explore boundaries and to formulate challenges for the future. To what extent does the social context determine the boundaries of foster care and to what extent are we capable of shifting these boundaries and giving new meaning to foster care?

• Erik van Nieuwenhuizen, training and consultancy, ‘Nova Casos’, Amstelveen, The Netherlands. His background is one of hotel management, statistics and marketing. Creative thinking and behavioural change are his core activities.
• Dr. Luk M.H. Robbroeckx, senior lecturer and researcher, specialised in foster care, department of Remedial Education, University of Nijmegen, The Netherlands
Track 2: Management & Organisation
Decision-making processes in foster care

Within and between organisations many decisions are being made every day, decisions about children who (on a temporary basis) cannot live with their natural parents. These decisions form a chain of actions and reactions, in which it seems to be very difficult to change a direction once taken. Every decision ought to contribute to the best possible co-operation between professionals and other parties involved, but especially to continuity in the child’s life. It would appear that the mandate of decision-making is with the professionals, but in the long run the child cannot expect continuity from this. Parents, foster parents, children and other non-professional parties involved are being asked for their opinion, but how can they really participate in decision-making? In the context of the ‘Innovation Plan Foster Care Limburg’ employees of the Foster Care Agency in the province of Limburg developed a decision-making game in which they actively involve the audience in deciding about a specific case.

• Bart van der Neut, consultant interim management, ‘Meerwerk’, Amsterdam
• Karin van Aubel, manager, Centre for Foster Care Limburg
• Annemiek Couwenbergh, project manager ‘Innovation Plan Foster Care Limburg’
• Employees and actors of the Foster Care Agency in Limburg, The Netherlands
Track 3: Education & Science
Foster care; communities of practice

Information and communication technology (ICT) is here to stay. Within foster care circles the use of e-mail has gradually emerged. But there are more possibilities for using ICT that will give a new dimension to communication, learning and development in foster care. In the development of new methods of ‘Family Reunification’ a national development group will for example use the idea of a ‘community of practice’. The participants will be invited to explore the possibilities of ICT for parents, foster parents, (foster) children, foster care workers, developers and all other parties in foster care, virtually, by means of a communication system made available by the ‘Centre Innovation of Education and Training’ (CINOP).

• Drs. Bert Veldhuizen, project manager ICT, CINOP in ‘s- Hertogenbosch (Netherlands).
• Drs. Riet Portengen, consultant TOPIC ~methods, organisation- and policy development~, Ouderkerk a/d Amstel (Netherlands).
Track 4: Concrete projects
Foster Care Group Conference

Family Group Conferences are a booming business in the world of foster care. Families are considered experts on the lives of children and together they draw up a plan for the child’s future. Social workers facilitate the execution of this plan and support the family if need be. This form of Family Group Decision-making originated in the Maori culture in New Zealand. Paul Nixon is the driving force behind the development of Family Group Conferences in England. By analogy to the method of Family Group Conferences he co-ordinates a ‘Foster Care Group Conference’, at which the audience draws up a plan for the future of foster care on the basis of their knowledge and experiences gained at the conference.

• Paul Nixon, project manager ‘Family Group Conferences’, Hampshire County Council, Winchester (England).

Plenary session

Inspiration for a new era:
Reflecting on the IFCO 2001 conference (documentary)

The documentary maker, Gerard Braspenning, will follow the conference, the tracks, workshops and other activities and ask participants about their impressions and reactions. The focal point will be the inspiration they receive and the messages they will take home with them for a new era in foster care.

• Documentary maker: Gerard Braspenning (45), experienced television journalist and documentary maker, employed by the national network.

Closing ceremony

The end of the conference won’t be the end of our thinking about foster care. All ideas and experiences gained during the week will live on. By means of new technologies, boundaries will disappear.
Talks that took place in keynotes, tracks and workshops will go on in the chatroom, through e-mail, through contacts made and in plans for international co-operation.

A foster-caring society can only be achieved by international co-operation.
A new age, new applications of possibilities for exchange, an increasing number of people that -either because they are forced to or of their own accord- move all over the world and are in need of shelter. Foster care in motion. We hope that this week will give a new incentive to your thoughts and actions.

The IFCO conferences in Finland and Argentina will be the next stations in this journey.

We will part in a swinging mood, see you again!